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Mixed Gender/Orientation

PLAYfight\PLAYparty

We may call them “play” parties, but we’re taking that element of “play” to a whole new level. Tired of the classic spanking and BD$M stations at play parties? Maybe you’ve never been to a play party before but they feel too…..serious…. Take your Valentines plans to a totally unexpected place!

As adults, we don’t often get permission to roughhouse as we once did in our youths. Wrestling or Playfighting is a way of taking this fun sport to a safe and sexy place.

Fan of the rough and tumble? Looking for an excuse to get sweaty with your partner? You don’t have to be Dom, sub, kinky, or experienced to get something out of playfighting. This playful fetish translates well into the bedroom. No WWE moves here. We use basic Jui Jitsu inspired maneuvers to properly control and contain. Put an erotic twist on physical techniques for Foreplay and Coitus. Switch roles and take turns “fighting” for top. With the assistance of trained MMA professionals you may learn takedowns, holds, and strategies to overpower your partner.

Our Teachers and Coaches will provide real time feedback as you perfect certain moves with your partner and guide you through your own improvisation! Primarily a social outing, throughout the night there will be opportunity to learn and receive instruction from our coaches in your groups, trios or more. We’ll teach you how to safely get playfully aggressive with your partner. There will be select demos throughout the night covering basic holds, asphyxiation safety, and more!

This is not a formal class or a pay-for-play kind of party. This means that no one is under an obligation to wrestle or play with you and that is the risk you run by buying a solo ticket. No guarantees. We’re all here to have fun and no one is entitled to anything other than their own individual experience

What is a play party?
A play party is a social gathering where play can escalate to that of a sexual variety. Given that we must reiterate and emphasize the importance of CONSENT in these spaces. Do not touch, interrupt, play, grab, kiss, squeeze etc… an individual (especially one you do not know) without explicit consent. This also includes reading body language by not infringing in a strangers space. Not everyone is there to f***. Buying a ticket does not make an assumption about anyone.

Is it okay to come alone?
Of course! You’re more than welcome to come along and who knows maybe you meet a person or two and you get along. Maybe that person also want’s to do a bit of wrestling as well.

What should I wear/bring?
No loose fitting clothing! We always encourage athletic or spandex type attire, but given it is a play party, less can be more too!

Is there anything I have to pay for after I arrive?
Nope! This isn’t a session wrestling party, so no paid sessions are going to be offered.

Will one of the coaches wrestle me?
This isn’t that type of event! If one of the coaches is okay with wrestling you that is up to their own discretion and consent. If you’re looking for guaranteed fetish wrestling sessions I recommend an upcoming Wrestling Party.

Are there ID or minimum age requirements to enter the event?
You must be at least 18 to partake

Will there be booze?
No booze, but you can BYOB. If we feel you are too intoxicated we reserve the right to ask you to leave and escort you off the premises.

This environment is welcoming of all sexualities, genders and abilities.
Specific accommodations must be communicated in advance.
This is a SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL & RISK-AWARE EVENT.
We encourage all to engage on some level but feel free to just socialize and be a voyeur if you are not ready to dive in the deep end.
We expect and enforce a consent based event that also is one of respect for your fellow humans. Anyone in violation will be dealt with and banned from future events. We want a safe space for those to freely explore and walk away with a positive experience

 

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Mixed Gender/Orientation

Reiki Bondage

Reiki Bondage – A first of its kind offering with an exploration into rope bondage and reiki energetic healing.

Led by The Reverend Rucifer, Reiki Master Teacher and Rope Enthusiast

Reiki bondage explores the practice of energy, breath and intuition to connect with the universal life force to strengthen and enhance our connection to self and others. Through hands on touch and rope bondage, we invite a sensual consciousness that can create a deeply intimate experience. Attendees will gain an introduction to reiki, breathwork and meditation techniques, and an overview of introductory rope concepts including single-column tie, tension and connection. All attendees will also receive Reiju (attunement/blessing) to strengthen the flow of reiki as we walk on the journey to discovery, intimacy and sensual touch.

This class can be taken alone or with partner. Great for connecting with a partner and/or to further deepen a connection with yourself and spiritual energy. A basic knowledge of rope or bondage is beneficial, but not necessary.

Participants are welcome to dress to their level of comfort throughout the class.

What to bring: We recommend bringing at least 2-4 x 30′ ropes. There will also be some rope available to borrow and for sale at the event $20 each.

Safety and consent are of upmost priority and will be discussed at the beginning of the event.

The Reverend Rucifer (Rev.Rue) is a reiki master teacher, rope lover and sex-positive advocate. For her reiki is as simple as the air we breath and is an accessible tool for all to connect with the divine source of life and healing energy.

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Mixed Gender/Orientation

Pass the Porn

An elevated and sophisticated version of that sleepover where one of your friends decided to search for porn and show the group. A cross between cinema and smut. Pillows, cuddle puddles, blankets and popcorn. And porn. Lots of porn.

With censorship at an all time high (RIP Tumblr), spaces to safely celebrate our sexuality are dwindling. The world lives between extremes. Porn stashes (not to be confused with Porn ‘staches) and Porn detoxes. Either we hide our habits to never speak of them or abstain from porn and proceed to never shut up about it. The reality is: Porn isn’t evil. It depends on how we use it. Let’s use it for good. Let’s talk about it, learn from it, incorporate it. Let’s create a conversation around pornography and use it as a platform to unpack cultural nuances and norms. Each Pass the Porn film series will do just that by featuring a curation of indie erotic films with an underlying theme and panel for discussion.

This Pass The Porn is all about ALTERED STATES. High sex. Cannalube. Sub space. Safe space. Trance. Elevated sexual experiences and what type of smut is the best entertainment when you’re in such a state. Pass the Porn aims to change our relationship with the way we watch porn, helping you question what these altered states help you feel and what feels best when you’re in them.

Which substance use is ‘safe?’ Does it make sex better? More dangerous? What’s the best way to go about exploring? Which do you use to release the body and which the mind? Our panels will navigate these questions and more between films.

:::: SAFETY | PLEASE READ ::::
This is a hands off event. While cuddling, kissing and mingling are allowed and encouraged, there is NO sexual play or nudity permitted at this event. This is for the safety and comfort of everyone within this container. While it’s perfectly okay to be turned on by what you watch—it is made with that in mind, after all—we like to keep a 3 second rule when it comes to creeping. As in: after three seconds, a stare becomes creepy. We also follow an alert system – alert a person or staff member what someone is doing makes you uncomfortable. They will get a warning and if they do it again they will be removed from the event. Pass the Porn is an education first event and part of that education is how to behave like a civil human around others. I.E. this isn’t an event for you to jerk off to the people sitting around you. If we’re going to have sex and watch porn, we should be able to talk about it.

:::: QUESTIONS? ::::
What do I wear?
Lingerie, Pajamas, Street Clothes. There’s no uniform, unless you want there to be….

Can I come alone?
Bring your friends, bring your boo, or just bring yourself. Pass the Porn is an event aimed to make porn social and socially acceptable. That includes being comfortable talking about it amongst friends and partners as well as experiencing it around other people. The point is: You’re not alone when in the company of like-minded individuals.

What if I get an erection during the film?
Great! That likely will happen and isn’t a big deal. What an excellent time to practice being aroused in a social situation and then not expecting anything to happen because of it!

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Female Identified Only

WRESTLING FOR WOMYN

This is not a self defense class. Brazilian Jui Jitsu can be used in a variety of different ways— including sexually as you may learn in our Wrestling for Lovers class. Whether its for self-defense or for play BJJ can take you many places.

In this class we will use the application to build understanding of the body to make you feel stronger and skilled. Size doesn’t matter in BJJ. There are strategies the small and nimble may used against a larger opponent. You’re stronger than you think. BJJ is not just about brute strength but about strategy and thought. Learn new skills that you can incorporate in a fun way into your life!

In this class you will learn basic moves and techniques and build off of those. Plan to gain an understanding of your own body as well as others. Plan to gain appreciation for your body and celebrate it. Plan to feel strong and empowered.

This class is for female-identifying and/or trans/non-binary individuals as we aim to empower in the current climate. The ability to know you can overpower someone twice your size is a lethal one indeed. Led by BJJ trained Coaches LT and Jules and fetish wrestler Lola Jean.

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Female Identified Only

Love Thyself: A Self Pleasure Workshop

***NOTE: this class is intended for people with vulvas ONLY***

The best love is self love, so why do we tend to rush this act as opposed to taking the time to enjoy it? This class will leave you looking at self love in a new light. Think of this as a yoga class for your naughty bits. Every month, take the time in Love Thyself to work on whatever your sexual goals may be. Whether it is learning new paths to pleasure or how to direct a lover to service you or working towards squirting voluntarily (that means on your own!). Perhaps this is 120 uninterrupted minutes focused on yourself and your junk.

Starting with a few basics on anatomy and pleasure zones. Instructor Lola Jean will take you through a vocally guided self touch journey. Partake in a few exercises that will help expand your views and understanding on masturbation. This class is about your individual experience, we’ll wrap with solo time, with the instructor available for one on one coaching during free play.

Each month, Love Thyself will have a different focus and concentrations. From Toys to Body Confidence to Squirting….The focus of this class is just that… squirting.

Lola Jean learned to understand and harness her ability to squirt not only with a lover but on her own through masturbation. It was not an overnight sensation, but a journey to the Olympian squirter she became. Though voluntary squirting is not the focus of this class, Lola will explain techniques and what to look for during this solo exploration.

We’ll also focus heavily on the role of the pelvic floor and flexing/understanding these muscles not only as it relates to squirting, but as it relates to controlling our own pleasure and sexual autonomy.

All you need for this class is yourself and your hand. A nude inspired class, nudity is fully optional as masturbation can be done with clothes on too. This is a safe and body positive space to be vulnerable both physically and mentally.

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Female Identified Only

FemDom 101

New to Female Domination and not sure where to start? In this class we will go back to the basics. Use building blocks like Honorifics and exercises to develop your Domme persona or their sub persona. Learn how to determine pain thresholds, reading your sub, aftercare and more…. There is no single “right” way within FemDom. Every Domme has their own style, and every sub requires a different approach. DommeLabs are designed to give you the tools you need to be a badass bitch in and out of the bedroom. Refine your skills, gain new inspiration, methods, and embrace your inner Domme. Learn how to seduce your partner into playing submissively. Bounce your sick and twisted ideas off of a group of Domme-minded peers in DommeThink at the end of each class, where the best meddling can be made.

In this class we will answer questions like….

What is your Domme style? How does that alter, dependent on the sub?

When and how do I bring this up with my partner?

How do you navigate boundaries, hard and soft limits?

Where does Domination begin and end?

What are common “mistakes” new Dommes make?

What are the main differences between professional and personal domination?

What to expect: a very fun and informative class where you will learn all spectrums of domination as well as a few useful strategies and skills.

• What to bring
For this event you only need yourself! Feel feel to bring something to take notes with. This event is more of an informational, so no Domme-specific attire is required, though certainly allowed.