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Mixed Gender/Orientation

PLAYfight\PLAYparty

We may call them “play” parties, but we’re taking that element of “play” to a whole new level. Tired of the classic spanking and BD$M stations at play parties? Maybe you’ve never been to a play party before but they feel too…..serious…. Take your Valentines plans to a totally unexpected place!

As adults, we don’t often get permission to roughhouse as we once did in our youths. Wrestling or Playfighting is a way of taking this fun sport to a safe and sexy place.

Fan of the rough and tumble? Looking for an excuse to get sweaty with your partner? You don’t have to be Dom, sub, kinky, or experienced to get something out of playfighting. This playful fetish translates well into the bedroom. No WWE moves here. We use basic Jui Jitsu inspired maneuvers to properly control and contain. Put an erotic twist on physical techniques for Foreplay and Coitus. Switch roles and take turns “fighting” for top. With the assistance of trained MMA professionals you may learn takedowns, holds, and strategies to overpower your partner.

Our Teachers and Coaches will provide real time feedback as you perfect certain moves with your partner and guide you through your own improvisation! Primarily a social outing, throughout the night there will be opportunity to learn and receive instruction from our coaches in your groups, trios or more. We’ll teach you how to safely get playfully aggressive with your partner. There will be select demos throughout the night covering basic holds, asphyxiation safety, and more!

This is not a formal class or a pay-for-play kind of party. This means that no one is under an obligation to wrestle or play with you and that is the risk you run by buying a solo ticket. No guarantees. We’re all here to have fun and no one is entitled to anything other than their own individual experience

What is a play party?
A play party is a social gathering where play can escalate to that of a sexual variety. Given that we must reiterate and emphasize the importance of CONSENT in these spaces. Do not touch, interrupt, play, grab, kiss, squeeze etc… an individual (especially one you do not know) without explicit consent. This also includes reading body language by not infringing in a strangers space. Not everyone is there to f***. Buying a ticket does not make an assumption about anyone.

Is it okay to come alone?
Of course! You’re more than welcome to come along and who knows maybe you meet a person or two and you get along. Maybe that person also want’s to do a bit of wrestling as well.

What should I wear/bring?
No loose fitting clothing! We always encourage athletic or spandex type attire, but given it is a play party, less can be more too!

Is there anything I have to pay for after I arrive?
Nope! This isn’t a session wrestling party, so no paid sessions are going to be offered.

Will one of the coaches wrestle me?
This isn’t that type of event! If one of the coaches is okay with wrestling you that is up to their own discretion and consent. If you’re looking for guaranteed fetish wrestling sessions I recommend an upcoming Wrestling Party.

Are there ID or minimum age requirements to enter the event?
You must be at least 18 to partake

Will there be booze?
No booze, but you can BYOB. If we feel you are too intoxicated we reserve the right to ask you to leave and escort you off the premises.

This environment is welcoming of all sexualities, genders and abilities.
Specific accommodations must be communicated in advance.
This is a SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL & RISK-AWARE EVENT.
We encourage all to engage on some level but feel free to just socialize and be a voyeur if you are not ready to dive in the deep end.
We expect and enforce a consent based event that also is one of respect for your fellow humans. Anyone in violation will be dealt with and banned from future events. We want a safe space for those to freely explore and walk away with a positive experience

 

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Mixed Gender/Orientation

Couples Erotic Massage

Pagans Paradise event that is open to all genders, orientations and lifestyles.

NOTE: This event is for couples and triads only, no singles.

Led by Dominus Eros and Reverend Rucifer

Learn how to give a luxurious sensuous massage using both touch and hot oil. Great class for those new to massage and for those wanting to learn a new trick or two. Sensuous Flow is all about learning how to connect the body in long strokes and how to tap into the bodies sensory patterns with light touch to leave your partner floating on air. You will be shown how to edge your partner as well as work all the erogenous zones. A must for those wanting to improve their touch with an easy and fun experience touching your partner in sensual and erotic ways!

We will show G spot, P spot and squirting methods, you can either follow along or just observe during those demos.

What to expect at the workshop:

You will be with your partner the whole class. Class is nude inspired while receiving massage, but givers can be in underwear if you so choose, we do encourage a body positive environment so full nudity the entire time is welcomed if you are comfortable.

What to bring?

You can bring a towel, sarong and shorts that you can wear when you need to use the restroom.

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Mixed Gender/Orientation

Reiki Bondage

Reiki Bondage – A first of its kind offering with an exploration into rope bondage and reiki energetic healing.

Led by The Reverend Rucifer, Reiki Master Teacher and Rope Enthusiast

Reiki bondage explores the practice of energy, breath and intuition to connect with the universal life force to strengthen and enhance our connection to self and others. Through hands on touch and rope bondage, we invite a sensual consciousness that can create a deeply intimate experience. Attendees will gain an introduction to reiki, breathwork and meditation techniques, and an overview of introductory rope concepts including single-column tie, tension and connection. All attendees will also receive Reiju (attunement/blessing) to strengthen the flow of reiki as we walk on the journey to discovery, intimacy and sensual touch.

This class can be taken alone or with partner. Great for connecting with a partner and/or to further deepen a connection with yourself and spiritual energy. A basic knowledge of rope or bondage is beneficial, but not necessary.

Participants are welcome to dress to their level of comfort throughout the class.

What to bring: We recommend bringing at least 2-4 x 30′ ropes. There will also be some rope available to borrow and for sale at the event $20 each.

Safety and consent are of upmost priority and will be discussed at the beginning of the event.

The Reverend Rucifer (Rev.Rue) is a reiki master teacher, rope lover and sex-positive advocate. For her reiki is as simple as the air we breath and is an accessible tool for all to connect with the divine source of life and healing energy.

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Mixed Gender/Orientation

Kink 101

Pagans Paradise & Daddy Retreat presents a Delightful Dungeon Club event that is open to all genders, orientations and lifestyles.

Note: Keeping with eventbrite guidelines, this event is not sex based, hookup style, explicit or pornographic. This an educational workshop with both theory and practical elements as explained in details below.

Led by Dominus Eros and The Reverend Rucifer, Double Dom/me!

St. Andrew’s Cross and Slapper Bench setup!

Kink 101 combines some of our BDSM based events to give you a taste of each for those new and a space for those experienced to further their knowledge. We also go over the dynamics of how to engage at a play party and what to expect at them.

BDSM can seem intimidating but Play is nothing to be afraid of, only to be enjoyed in a fun, safe and erotic way. Consent and negotiation are discussed in order to set a safe, sane and consensual scene.

Impact play is shown in a variety of ways from flogging to paddling and all in between. You will learn why impact play can be fun and pleasurable. Advanced techniques like florentine flogging will be shown as well as how to use specialty items.

Sensual Delights utilize the beautiful elements seen in sense play. We use tools/toys to tantalize the senses of the body in ways that act a great contrast to impact play as well as take advantage of the effects on the body that impact brings. When the body takes impact it gets a lot of blood to the surface and the skin becomes more sensitive to textured items that will soothe and excite the body and mind.

Deprivation play is all about taking away senses or ones ability to do things like breathe, move and denial play as well. We will show how to use hoods, restraints, blindfolds as well other techniques like how to properly choke in safe ways (breath play). When you take away certain senses it enhances the ability to feel other elements and creates moments of anticipation and excitement.

Play toys, rope, floggers, paddles and more will be available to add to the scene and to help you be able to create the mood for intense play and fun.

NOTE: We encourage everyone to have an open mind in that this is a fun experience that you can learn, all consent based and done in a safe, sane and consensual space that welcomes all to explore and try new things. We do not pair people up as we leave that to those attending, all will be able to learn in all capacities. Couples can stay paired the whole time or play with others if you so choose.

What to expect at the workshop:

Kink Wear inspired class, however you can dress in any gear/sexy/regular clothing if you want. You will learn how to use all items shown in a safe way. You are not required to participate though we do encourage asking questions and picking up the tools to see how they feel.

We expect and enforce a consent based event that also is one of respect for your fellow humans.

What to bring?

You can bring a towel if you want. If you have a flogger/toys feel free to bring that as well.

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Mixed Gender/Orientation

Pass the Porn

An elevated and sophisticated version of that sleepover where one of your friends decided to search for porn and show the group. A cross between cinema and smut. Pillows, cuddle puddles, blankets and popcorn. And porn. Lots of porn.

With censorship at an all time high (RIP Tumblr), spaces to safely celebrate our sexuality are dwindling. The world lives between extremes. Porn stashes (not to be confused with Porn ‘staches) and Porn detoxes. Either we hide our habits to never speak of them or abstain from porn and proceed to never shut up about it. The reality is: Porn isn’t evil. It depends on how we use it. Let’s use it for good. Let’s talk about it, learn from it, incorporate it. Let’s create a conversation around pornography and use it as a platform to unpack cultural nuances and norms. Each Pass the Porn film series will do just that by featuring a curation of indie erotic films with an underlying theme and panel for discussion.

This Pass The Porn is all about ALTERED STATES. High sex. Cannalube. Sub space. Safe space. Trance. Elevated sexual experiences and what type of smut is the best entertainment when you’re in such a state. Pass the Porn aims to change our relationship with the way we watch porn, helping you question what these altered states help you feel and what feels best when you’re in them.

Which substance use is ‘safe?’ Does it make sex better? More dangerous? What’s the best way to go about exploring? Which do you use to release the body and which the mind? Our panels will navigate these questions and more between films.

:::: SAFETY | PLEASE READ ::::
This is a hands off event. While cuddling, kissing and mingling are allowed and encouraged, there is NO sexual play or nudity permitted at this event. This is for the safety and comfort of everyone within this container. While it’s perfectly okay to be turned on by what you watch—it is made with that in mind, after all—we like to keep a 3 second rule when it comes to creeping. As in: after three seconds, a stare becomes creepy. We also follow an alert system – alert a person or staff member what someone is doing makes you uncomfortable. They will get a warning and if they do it again they will be removed from the event. Pass the Porn is an education first event and part of that education is how to behave like a civil human around others. I.E. this isn’t an event for you to jerk off to the people sitting around you. If we’re going to have sex and watch porn, we should be able to talk about it.

:::: QUESTIONS? ::::
What do I wear?
Lingerie, Pajamas, Street Clothes. There’s no uniform, unless you want there to be….

Can I come alone?
Bring your friends, bring your boo, or just bring yourself. Pass the Porn is an event aimed to make porn social and socially acceptable. That includes being comfortable talking about it amongst friends and partners as well as experiencing it around other people. The point is: You’re not alone when in the company of like-minded individuals.

What if I get an erection during the film?
Great! That likely will happen and isn’t a big deal. What an excellent time to practice being aroused in a social situation and then not expecting anything to happen because of it!