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ONLINE: Dirty Talk and Consent in Conversation (aka how to make consent sexy)
August 3, 2020 @ 8:00 pm - 9:30 pm
Did you assume dirty talk meant saying mean or degrading things to someone?
Not quite sure what folx mean when they say “make consent sexy?”
Feel like a robot asking Can I? and May I?
Consent is in our every day lives, not just s3x. And it’s more than the permission of Can I and May I. In this all encompassing 360 of Dirty Talk, weaving in consent will always be applicable. Expect guidance that addresses both of these. Even the most unimaginative or stage frightened of us can learn a few tools for using their words on the fly.
There is a wide spectrum of dirty talk both in context and content. There’s a big difference between “tell me what you want to do to me” versus “tell me how filthy I am.” It is up to us what we find erotic or pleasurable. Wether you want to improv it up or plan out your audiogram for that special someone, there are infinite avenues in this realm of the senses.
Have you ever heard a really good guided meditation? Why should arousal be any different? Sometimes it’s nice to let someone else guide your mental and visual experience….even if that person is you! Learning how to make your own audio erotica or recorded sweet nothings is a valuable tool to not only up your dirty talk game, but to arouse yourself as well. The only bounds to our sexual creativity is the imagination, learn how to ignite and foster it.