Kink 101 – Intro to all things BDSM and play parties!

Tickets: https://kink101mar22.eventbrite.com

Kink 101 – Intro to all things BDSM and play parties! – Fri 7:30-10 pm

Pagans Paradise & Daddy Retreat presents a Delightful Dungeon Club event that is open to all genders, orientations and lifestyles.

Led by Dominus Eros and Bella Minx, Double Dom/me!

St. Andrew’s Cross and Slapper Bench setup!

Kink 101 is a combination of 3 of our BDSM based events to give you a taste of each for those new and a space for those experienced to further their knowledge. We also go over the dynamics of how to engage at a play party and what to expect at them.

BDSM can seem intimidating but Play is nothing to be afraid of, only to be enjoyed in a fun, safe and erotic way. Bondage is introduced with basic ties that you can use to bind hands and feet freely or to cross/bench/table. Sense play with tools and toys gets blended to create a fun and erotic experience. Impact play is shown in a variety of ways from flogging to paddling and all in between.

Play toys, rope, floggers, paddles and more will be available to add to the scene and to help you be able to create the mood for intense play and fun.

Cost – Single Early Bird $30, $50 after
Cost – Couple Early Bird $50, $90 after
Cash works, if you want a PayPal/Venmo invoice please contact 3fsnyc@gmail.com.

Tickets: https://kink101mar22.eventbrite.com

Rope/Floggers will be provided however we will have some to buy as well. Bring extra money for those items that you may like.

NOTE: We encourage everyone to have an open mind in that this is a fun experience that you can learn, all consent based and done in a safe, sane and consensual space that welcomes all to explore and try new things. We do not pair people up as we leave that to those attending, all will be able to learn in all capacities. Couples can stay paired the whole time or play with others if you so choose.

What to expect at the workshop:

Kink Wear inspired class, however you can dress in any gear/sexy/regular clothing if you want. You will learn how to use all items shown in a safe way. Free play after 9:00pm

What to bring?

You can bring a towel if you want. If you have a flogger/toys feel free to bring that as well.

RSVP Class has limited spots, please reserve as soon as you can. We can have a waiting list in case of cancellations. ***Note, Please RSVP only if you plan on coming, it is misleading to others attending when half a group shows up thinking many others are coming, and could potentially block someone who wants to come from attending. Thank you for your cooperation in this matter. Hope to see you soon!

Pegging: A Love Story (about Butt Stuff)

• What we’ll do
Pre-purchase tickets at https://apegginglovestory.eventbrite.com

They say the way to someone’s heart is through their butthole.

Oh, wait. That’s not what they say? Hmmm…. well it is now. What better way to show them you love them by paying attention to the juicy pucker who gets less love? Pamper with some anal massage and learn the way of the analingus.

Pegging: A sexual practice in which someone performs anal sex on another human by penetrating with a strap on dildo.

Congratulations prostate owners, you are a lucky bunch. YOU-yes you-have the privledge of both being able to penetrate and be penetrated. Those without prostates can still find pleasure of the anal persuasion which will be covered in this class as well. After all, it is ALL about butt stuff.

This class is intended for first time peggers and peggee’s or those looking to refine their skills. Not ready for dildo penetraton? That’s what hands are for. Gloves, lube and boy butter will be made available to attendees to make sure your first (or more) time is memorable.

In this class we will cover pegging top to bottom, emphasis on the bottom. We begin with a discussion on anatomy and safety before we progress into a demo of external touching and massage before any penetration would occur. Then you’ll be guided through hands on, hands on touch — if you wish to participate. Next up is a live pegging demo which you will have the opportunity to partake with your partner or fellow classmate should they consent.

We’ll take the build up from manual prostate/anal stimulaion and work up to dildo penetration. Coming as a single? Find someone to pair up with or go on a solo voyage: spelunking the the great unknown. Not sure you’re ready to Dora Explore someone’s butthole? Sit back and watch, learn, take notes. Spectator sport!

Are you worried about coming alone? Don’t be! We can never predict the break down of pegee’s and peggers that attend the class. The large majority who attend are singles – each class really depends on group dynamic. Don’t feel pressure to participate in class as you can learn just as much from the demonstrations alone!

There will be a few extra dildo’s available to use (with condom!!!) but dildo is very personal for each Pegee (receiver) so we encourage you to bring or buy your own!

There are tiered tickets available for those in search of a Harness or a premier prostate play toy for solo or partnered use. Dont miss this amazing deal on these bedroom essentials!

Single $40 Pegger (person doing the pegging),
Single $55 Peggee (person receiving the pegging), $75 with a prostate toy
Couple $95, $115 with harness and prostate toy

The term “pegging” was popularized when it became the winning entry in a contest in Dan Savage’s “Savage Love” sex advice column, held after an observation was made that there was no common name or dictionary definition for the act in the English language.

**Note:: if you come as a single we DO NOT guarantee you will be paired with a partner. We are not a matchmaking service. The class will be fun and educational regardless.

• What to bring
Your favorite Dildo!

• Important to know
Pre-purchase tickets at https://buttstuffjan21.eventbrite.com

VDAY EDITION Oral Fixation: A Lesson in Fellatio and Cunnilingus!

Tickets: https://vdayoralfixation.eventbrite.com

Oral Fixation: A Lesson in Fellatio and Cunnilingus! Fri 8:00-10:00 pm

Pagans Paradise event that is open to all genders, orientations and lifestyles.

Take a trip down South and stay a while.

If you are unaware of the importance of Foreplay, we’re glad you’re here. You need this.

Aside from being really fucking fun, oral manipulation of the genitals can be as satisfying an experience as sex for both the receiver and the giver. Not to mention, oral can lead to more satisfying and enjoyable sex.

As humans, we tend to like what we’re good at. So, why don’t you brush up on your skill set and add this to the list of things you’re good at.

Led by Aaron and Lola Jean who will discuss the separate anatomy as well as different techniques and fundamentals when it comes to pleasing your partner orally, not just on genitalia but on the entire body! The class will be broken into two hours. The first hour focused on Cunnilingus technique and the second hour focused on Fellatio. Within each hour Aaron and Lola will begin with a talk & teach by explaining and demonstrating certain moves. Then you’ll be able to try these out on your own partner with Aaron and Lola both available for any assistance and coaching.

Great event for all couples regardless of gender and genitals; All sex organs are quite similar when it comes to pleasure and the techniques are SUPER applicable regardless of the genitals.

Identifying as Pansexual Aaron and Lola bring a unique perspective being skilled givers and recievers while able to translate body empathy.

What to expect at the workshop:

Open to all genders, orientations and lifestyles. You will be with your partner the whole class. Class is nude inspired, but givers can be in underwear if you so choose, we do encourage a body positive environment so full nudity the entire time is welcomed if you are comfortable.

What to bring?

You can bring a towel, and shorts that you can wear when you need to use the restroom or walk in the waiting area.

This event is BYOL: Bring Your Own Lube. Make sure to clean all your naughty bits before class, for your partners sake. This includes back door!

PSA to vulva owners: please do not use any scented products on your bits as it can lead to a bacterial imbalance otherwise known as BV.

If you are a trio please inquire for an extra singles ticket.

Tickets: https://vdayoralfixation.eventbrite.com

What to expect at the workshop:

You will be with your partner the whole class. Class is nude inspired while receiving massage, but givers can be in underwear if you so choose, we do encourage a body positive environment so full nudity the entire time is welcomed if you are comfortable.

What to bring?

You can bring a towel, and shorts that you can wear when you need to use the restroom or walk in the waiting area.

RSVP Class has limited spots, please reserve as soon as you can. We can have a waiting list in case of cancellations.

***Note, Please RSVP only if you plan on coming, it is misleading to others attending when half a group shows up thinking many others are coming, and could potentially block someone who wants to come from attending. Thank you for your cooperation in this matter. Hope to see you soon!

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Valentines Couples Retreat: Sex Boot Camp

Pagans Paradise presents: a weekend intensive Erotic Retreat!

Location in TBA in Brooklyn

Tickets : https://valentinescouplesretreat.eventbrite.com

Connect with your partner like never before. Whether it’s a stay-cation a vacation or somewhere in between. Jet away to a sex positive and inclusive haven in the concrete jungle to connect with your own body and learn about others. Perfect for those coming from Connecticut, Long Island and Jersey!

This weekend intensive provides the unique opportunity to build off of learning in REAL TIME. A combination of Pagans Paradise’s most popular classes plus many exclusive only available for the erotic retreat. All workshops, intensives and private sessions with the goal of connecting and understanding your partner to bring both of you closer together and closer to unleashing the desires you did not know existed within you.

Along with optional breakout lessons for specific coursework in BDSM, expect to gain knowledge on both the physical and psychologically sexual level. Every full weekend couples ticket will get a complimentary one-on-one (a $250 value) with Aaron or Lola based on their interests and desires.

Each day there will be a variety of classes, exercises and opportunities to perfect your skills and evolve your sexual relationship and dynamic. From nearly-naked yoga, Erotic Hypnosis to G-spot/ P-Spot intensive to Tantric focus. Saturday night will culminate with a play party to relax, play, and connect with each other (or others, should you feel so inclined).

Friday night, arrive for welcome drinks and a relaxing erotic massage class as you get to know your surroundings. Begin your next morning with a yoga workshop before our staff caters your breakfast.

All meals, accommodations, beer and wine are included in the price. Alternatively you can pay your deposit to

Paypal: 3FSNYC@gmail.com

Venmo: @lolajean

If you wish to stay in the facilities for the weekend there is an Add-on available for purchase. For day ticket-ers you can either choose to find you own accommodation near the facility or attend only the Saturday/Sunday sessions.

Early Bird Couples Weekend Ticket $595 (regular price $695)

Early Bird Couples Saturday Ticket $395 (regular price $455)

If you are a triad please or a single wishing to attend the play party contact thelolajean@gmail.com for ticket options.

Sample Itinerary
*to be finalized

**Day 1 – Friday – Get Loose**
-Welcome Drinks / Meet and Greet
-Introduction to Sexual Rediscovery Course: How to discuss and navigate sexual conversations and consent
– Erotic Massage Class

**Day 2 – Saturday – Focus on Each Other**
-(Nearly) Naked Yoga : Start the day off with acknowelding your body and it’s capabilites
-Tantric Intensive : What is Tantra and how should you incorporate it?
-Kink 101 & Sensation Play : Where to begin with Kink & Find Your THING
-Optional Breakouts: Impact Play / FemDom / Prostate / GSpot Workshops
-Erotic Hypnosis
-Wrestling for Lovers : Bring Playfighting to the Bedroom
-Mouthing Off : Put Your Money Where Your Mouth IS
-Play Party!

**Day 3 – Sunday – Focus on Yourself**
-Continuing sexual communication and How to introduce new elements, kink, or partners to your relationship
-Break out : Male Internal Orgasm // Female Masturbation // Squirting
-Masturbation Puppetry
-Homework assignments and good byes!

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Couples Erotic Massage – Valentines Edition #2

Couples Erotic Massage – Learn the art of sensuous touch! Weds 8:30-10:30 pm (7:30-10:30) for elite tickets

Pagans Paradise event that is open to all genders, orientations and lifestyles.

NOTE: This event is for couples and triads only, no singles.
***Elite starts at 7:30pm, Classic at 8:30pm***

Tickets: https://vdayeroticmassagefeb13.eventbrite.com

Led by Aaron and Lola Jean

Learn how to give a luxurious sensuous massage using both touch and hot oil. Great class for those new to massage and for those wanting to learn a new trick or two. Sensuous Flow is all about learning how to connect the body in long strokes and how to tap into the bodies sensory patterns with light touch to leave your partner floating on air. You will be shown how to edge your partner as well as work all the erogenous zones. A must for those wanting to improve their touch with an easy and fun experience touching your partner in sensual and erotic ways!

For a special treat, we will be offering an ELITE PACKAGE: Arrive at 7:30 pm for a Sensation Play bonus. Stimulate all of the senses before you indulge in your 2 hour erotic massage. Delight and tickle the senses with a selection of tastes, sounds, smells, and scents while you explore each others bodies. This package also includes a bottle of massage oil ($15 value) to take home with you to practice everything you learned on your own time. Highly recommended for first timers, or anyone who want’s more easing into the class.

About the Private Room experience:
If you’re feeling a bit gun-shy about being in a room of other sexy humans, this may be a great option for you. The instructors Aaron and Lola Jean will come in from time to time to provide instruction on techniques and guidance periodically over the 2 hour period and leave you to yourselves to take practice into your own hands.

Cost $60-100 per person depending on if getting early bird, regular single or elite package (click on link for tickets below). $15 bottle of massage oil will be offered at class for you to take home.

Tickets: https://vdayeroticmassagefeb13.eventbrite.com

NOTE :: 1 ticket per couple, for triad please contact for third ticket. For private room you have to purchase in addition to the tickets.

What to expect at the workshop:

You will be with your partner the whole class. Class is nude inspired while receiving massage, but givers can be in underwear if you so choose, we do encourage a body positive environment so full nudity the entire time is welcomed if you are comfortable.

What to bring?

You can bring a towel, and shorts that you can wear when you need to use the restroom or walk in the waiting area.

RSVP Class has limited spots, please reserve as soon as you can with purchased tickets. We can have a waiting list in case of cancellations.

***Note, Please RSVP only if you plan on coming, it is misleading to others attending when half a group shows up thinking many others are coming, and could potentially block someone who wants to come from attending. Thank you for your cooperation in this matter. Hope to see you soon!

RSVP

Sense Play and Sensual Dominance

Tickets: https://senseplayjan25.eventbrite.com

NOTE: Depending on how you identify we will try to pair you accordingly, however we encourage everyone to have an open mind in that this is a fun experience that you can learn, all consent based and done in a safe, sane and consensual space that welcomes all to explore and try new things. If you only want to be paired with a certain gender or orientation and are not sure, bring someone with you and you can stay paired up, part of the fun in this case would be voyeurism with various types of play.

BDSM can include many layers and levels of play, one of them being the sensual side of touch and sensation. Sense Play uses techniques and methods that play on both the physical and mental aspect of the sub. For Sense play we utilize many different tools/toys that vary in texture, feel, temperature and density. One doesn’t have to identify as a Dom/me or sub in order to enjoy sensation play.

Lola will take you through how you can dominate using sensuality and touch to Dom/me your sub. Learn to introduce the various tools to create sensual layers of tactile response. Combined you will find a play session that is both erotic and stimulating, while not being overly aggressive and avoiding impact play. Great class for all new comers and those that know.

As a step beyond our normal sense play class, learn how to use less invasive tools of dominance or control without asking your partner to give up more than they are ready for. An excellent lesson for those unsure of where to start with their partner. A favorite of Lola’s is a correction to the kink starter pack: Choke, Spank and Hair pull are executed painstakingly wrong and with such frequency. Learn how to do these basic moves with ease, consent, and safety.

We will provide all tools/toys, but feel free to bring your own.

Cost $45 for individual, $80 for a couple.

What to expect at the workshop: Nude inspired class, however you can dress in gear/sexy clothing if you want. You will learn how to use all items shown in a safe way.

What to bring? You can bring a towel, and shorts that you can wear when you need to use the restroom or walk in the waiting area. If you have tools/toys feel free to bring that as well.

I’m a sub/dom/switch/gay/straight/man/woman/human, is it okay if I come alone?

This is a tasting using different types of toys or temperature on the skin. We have people pair or group up and split the class into two intervals so each person can experience being giver and receiver. If two individuals agree to any sexual touching of sorts that’s up to their own consent however it is NOT required or expecting of any individual, nor is nudity. We cannot promise to pair you up with someone of a specific gender or orientation, so if you don’t want to leave it to chance we recommend bringing a partner

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