Pass The Porn: A Cinematic Social Experience

Presented by the Violet and Is Our Love ____ ?
With censorship at an all time high, it feels like spaces to safely express or celebrate our sexual interests are dwindling. We’re stuck in a limbo between eyes wide shut sex parties and Instagram worthy gala’s that cost an arm and a leg just to say you went.

Enter Pass the Porn. Helping you form your relationship with pornography. The world lives between extremes. Porn stashes (not to be confused with Porn ‘staches) and Porn detoxes. Either we hide our porn habits behind our back to never speak of it or abstain from porn and proceed to never shut up about it. The reality is: Porn isn’t evil. It all depends on how we use it. So let’s choose to use it for good. Let’s talk about it, cause it sure as hell isn’t going away.

What if there was a way to watch the porn we can’t bring ourselves to pay for in the company of friends and strangers? What if we could create a conversation around said pornography and use it as a learning platform. Ask questions about what you saw, what is real, what is “normal.” Unpack the nuances and cultural norms influenced by porn and how that ripples back through society.

Think of this as an elevated and sophisticated version of that sleepover where one of your friends decided to search for porn and show the group. A cross between cinema and smut. Pillows, cuddle puddles, blankets and popcorn.

Each Pass the Porn film series will feature multiple films from well known and indie artists with an underlying theme. Masturbation, Facials, BDSM, Group Sex and much more. Between films, expect panel discussions, Q&A, and mini workshops related to the content you just saw.

This inaugural Pass The Porn is all about THREESOMES. MMF, FFM, MMM, FFF, TTM and everything in between. Combinations are endless and variety is the spice of life. But How do you go about initiating a threesome? Is it really like how it happens in porn? How do you figure out positions? Who goes first? That’s where our panels and workshops come in. Unicorns: What To Do When Adding a Third or When You Become One. Speaks from both the perspective of the couple AND the third. And who knows, maybe you’ll meet a special someone to your other special someone.

This is a hands off event. While cuddling, kissing and mingling is allowed and encouraged, there is NO sexual play or nudity permitted at this event. This is for the safety and comfort of everyone within this container. There will be future events with themes that may allow this: i.e. Masturbation or Couples focused collections.

It’s perfectly okay to be turned on by what you watch. It is made with that in mind, after all. We like to keep a 3 second rule when it comes to creeping. As in: after three seconds, a stare becomes creepy. We follow an alert system – alert a person or staff member what someone is doing makes you uncomfortable. They will get a warning and if they do it again they will be removed from the event. Pass the Porn is an education first event and part of that education is how to behave like a civil human around others. I.E. this isn’t an event for you to jerk off to the people sitting around you. If we’re going to have sex and watch porn, we should be able to talk about it.

*Beverages and Nibbles will be available for purchase*


What do I wear?

Lingerie, Pajamas, Street Clothes. There’s no uniform, unless you want there to be….

Can I come alone?

Bring your friends, bring your boo, or just bring yourself. Pass the Porn is an event aimed to make porn social and socially acceptable. That includes being comfortable talking about it amongst friends and partners as well as experiencing it around other people. The point is: You’re not alone when in the company of like-minded individuals.

What if I get an erection during the film?

Great! That likely will happen and isn’t a big deal. What an excellent time to practice being aroused in a social situation and then not expecting anything to happen because of it!


Introducing MEET(up) MARKET: A social event to bring us all together. Meet the instructors Aaron and Lola Jean and maybe make a new friend or two, or three or five. We’ll have a few impact and sensation tools lying around for use, but the main purpose is to be social and meet new folx!

Find someone who piqued your interest? At the end of the social hour there will be an optional mini class (from 9-10pm) for couples or newfound friends to attend for an additional fee. (You can pre-purchase if you already know you’re coming as a couple!)